Is there any reason to all this lagging that we are expeirencing all the time? Too little RAM or simply ingame problems?

I do not get lag. Occasionally I may get a lag spike and require a quick relog which will fix it.

If there is lag - it is from idiots killing the useless and a wasteful cake monsters.

Oh well, the lagg has comed to the point where I log in, kill two monsters, lag freeze and I need to logout again. Kinda insane really. Anyone else having this kind of extreme lag?
And is there any way for me to reduce it?

I have bad lag, but not THAT bad. If you read the announcements, there is an issue at hand. And if you want a better server, if you'd donate money for the server, maybe Robert might be able to buy a dedicated host